It so happen, Tom, not because of your age or having children. But because you've written in your profile that you are against that a woman you can choose has children. But the majority of women at this site have children and it's not bad. On the other side though I accept the right of any person to refuse to grow up not his own children, I am convinced that a person who loves his / her partner will accept his/her children as own. Besides as for me men who are against children scare me a bit. Because to my mind a person with kind and open heart will hardly write this. It's just my feeling, maybe I'm not right. But it seems to me that it scares most women. Besides there's too strict restriction of the weight. Do you really think that if a lady weights 58 kg instead of 54 as you wish automatically can not be a good person, beautiful lady and make a man happy? People are not tolerant enough to others, too demandive, invent too many restrictions and then complain on the life. Our problems in relations are created by ourselves.