I agree with you Billy. Women almost never write first, ok we know this, so we make the step and even in a place where people is supposed to talk, exchange with the aim of finding the second part, it is discouraging to see what you have in return, you read profile and women mostly don't, this is why i fill profile partially, it is not read anyway. enough for starting discussion normally. i also notice that men should also always "feed" the conversation otherwise happens what happens usually: discussion is over. i do not write to women who have reply rate under 20%, and there are so many... best regards.