Brendon they not see there own mother who’s not seen her youngest in 5 years or more. My mother (grandma) is 87 and not always well enough to be with my youngest. Allot of the women with little support or with drunk or violent ex partners or partners who don’t care about there children will understand its hard to make arrangements while dating. Parents need to have a life has well has be a parent and whatever anyone says or thinks I’ve no issues with my 17 year old son meeting Slavic women he understands daddy can date and I always get two bedroomed apartments and his rooms private and his space!