Lena I think your assessment of the situation is a little unfair. I work on i principle that I spend the same on my imidiate family has I do on myself. I think I’d not buy anything better or worse for others than I expect myself to have has everyone are equals! I remember a forum where a man said he bought himself a $90 suitcase and the girl needed a $300 suitcase... that’s pure greed on the girls part!!