You have 9 downvotes because you ignoring two vital facts... the man don’t respect her of the child and also she don’t respect the man!!! The house and his drinking is not family condition for child and Vicky has posted and made situation which is private between two people public and the biggest scandal here since the Latvian forest! No respect not best start to a marriage.... this cannot happen... girl has many options best one is find a mother and baby group and attend normally in England these are free... she needs to know people then ask for help another option is beg with child on metro one ticket beg all day and collect money maybe sing or make card... or even sit on streets... police isn’t a option and social services will remove child!! If she finds a job child needs to go with her.... however in my view best idea is stay calm!!! The best idea find sofa 🛋 surf 🏄‍♀️ app and get sofa at another house!!! Whatever she does do something!!! If there was no child involved I’d say she’s there out of own stupidity so no pity!!! But child means she’s a duty to sort problem fast