It depends on the amount of messsges you get and the quality of people who are messaging you! If your getting enough messages great, if not, you need to be pro-active. I always see who’s added me has favourites or viewed me it’s a semi compromise but in 2018 nothing wrong if a woman likes a man here sending him a message! If you do, don’t make the mistake of just hi or hello or wink a good personalised message does much better. but don’t be thinking your too good to messsge first if you like something. in life you need to go and get it... it won’t come to you.