I will answer your question breaking it down so it makes full sense

Hello ladies and gentlemen! We are all on the website do search serious relationship. Ideally looking for a husband or wife. (Ideally is a ideal not a certainty)

We have interesting conversations. (This is acknowledging we have conversations not we have conversation, meaning already both speak to others)

We get to know each other, conduct correspondence, and make choices, in favor of one of the potential grooms or brides. As you know the goal of any Dating is the real meeting. And if people like each other in person, relations continue to develop. My question is the following? If you plan a personal meeting, a potential suitor continues to be active on the website. Not to treat the offer seriously and not waste mental strength? He is still undecided and is a list of brides? (I’ve already within the first two brackets shown you have acknowledged both people do this hence why do you say here about his list of brides 👰🏼 however ignore the fact of your potential list of grooms?) How to correctly talk about this? (There’s nothing to talk about till you both decide you have a serious relationship and potentially exchanged body fluids at which point talking to others outside of forum becomes wrong) a woman in England who makes unrealistic demands of a man has a term (Bunny 🐰 Boiler)