As for me many points show some facts but there's no man equal to another. Also things get really different from age to age, and maybe thats why women from 35 years to 60 are a lot more interested on knowing how man think and what they want than younger woman, because maybe theyre taking more risks because of bad experiences and we are made of experiences indeed, that make us a unique being. Of course there are some women from 20 years or so who think on this too, but theyre a lot less, and the reality here is that finding someone isnt about using a manual, every man and woman is different, as for me I believe we need to know ourselves enough first, cause only each person knows what he/she wants, and to look for someone not ideal, not perfect but a human being who has the things we want but also we need to be what the other person is looking, so improvement is basic in Love, because life is about growing.