Hello Inessa, In my country, if you tell people that you are 35 they will not think that you lie. About your question, some men prefer the subservient stay at home type of woman. These men more often than not feel intimidated by strong independent women, remember most men have egos the size of mountains and a woman that is clearly their superior will make them feel insignificant. But it is OK because I don't see you as the subservient "type". So my answer, If I was in your shoes, would be, " I love my work and it is important for me to be very good at what I do. I am independent, therefore I have to earn my keep. I am not on this site to chat for hours on end, I want a serious relationship with the right man. It is in any case not about the quantity of communication, but about the quality." Inessa this is from a male perspective and probably all wrong, I am very frank, maybe you could put a softer tone in it.

Your Mr. Right is out there and he as of yet don't know how lucky he is!