Have you seen him on Skype?Do you know about his personal life?
Is he married/divorced ?

Does he has a job or not ?

A man who demands that the woman should come to him first , may have a different type of religion or tradition.
Understand that there are many refugees from all sorts of religion and nature in Germany.

And I don`t have to tell you , what happened on New Years Eve 2015 in Cologne in Germany.

So I would be very , very careful , and get to know this man , really really good!

Eric