Fernando ,

It is not a question of forgiving.He should not have asked these questions in the first place.

What he needs is a mentality change.

In one of his replies he says that : "she is a mature woman"
I ask myself if he is a mature man , when I see the behaviour that he is displaying.

Maybe he is thinking , hey I will register with this datingsite , and I am gonna grab me a woman from Russia or from a CIS country.

And that is that !! Wrong !

If he thinks like this , I am sure he will have some bad surprises.

I don`t say , that I know all about the people , the women and the traditions and culture of Russia and the E Europe.
But I have done my research and reading , about their life , their hopes , their culture and their outlook on the future.

I understand what good and decent behaviour , means to the people and moreover to these women.
I understand , that they seek for a man who is loyal , gentleman like and honest.

In their culture you need to be aware of what is considered , appropriate and normal behaviour.
They will Always try , to not embarass you or make you feel bad.

Even when you are causing a very uncomfortable situation.When you don`t understand this , you may only make things worse.

If you want to control them and their life , it is a recipe for failure.
But that also will happen with a relation with a Western woman.

I really hope that it will go well for them both.And that the relation did not suffer from this.

There is a time and a moment for everything as the saying goes.

Now is the time for him , to start to learn about her tradition and culture.

Eric