Hello Elvira ,

So , you are not married with him ?? Or you had a wedding ?? In your country , or in Holland ??

Yes , it is a bit more complicated , when your partner , already had a marriage , and is now divorced.With children.

There are many things , to consider , and to take notice of.
So , is visiting the children , or go with them , on day trips.Or going to the hospital , when they are there , for some cure.

Well , all the normal things.And you need to adjust , yourself , to the varying situations.

Of course , marriage , is a important happening , and it brings , a lot of responsibility.
Although , I did not made that step , I was close to it , one time , in the past.

I understand , that , when your family , is against it , it will make things , more dramatic for you.

And , only you , will know , what is the best.

So , I wish you , much wisdom and a clear mind , to make the right decisions.

Maybe , just as a positive note , life in Holland , is not so bad.
Once , you have adjust yourself to it.

Take care

Eric