Hi Anya ,


Excuse me , for saying this.Are these the only things , that you have asked them??So , you want to know , if they want you to work or stay at home.
And if they want children or not ??

Did you ask them other questions , like , if they are married , or if they have children ??And what was their answer ??

So , they tell you , that it is better to discuss it , in a personal meeting.And you consider this , as a weird answer.
Well , let us suppose , that they say to you , that they don`t want you , to find a job!!And to stay at home.

Would you believe them ??Yes or No.
But this is not a weird answer , or is it ??

And when they tell you , that they want to have children ??Do you consider this , as a weird answer also ??

What I want to prove is , that it is not about , which answer , that they will give you!
It is about , your OWN personal mindset.
It is , what YOU believe , COULD BE THE TRUTH , or not!!

You are having these conversations , with these men.So , only you will know , what is a good answer , or not.
And if it don`t feel right for you , then you should end the communication.

I am aware , that women from the CIS countries , have a different view on life , than women from the West.Your culture and tradition , differs from the Western countries.
Although , for the younger generation , this difference , may not be so big , anymore.

Due to all the new technology , and the access to the internet.Many information , and examples , is at the stroke of a button.Facebook and Twitter , makes life , more connected , to everyone , everywhere.
And many people , will share their life , on these forums.

To be open , can be good.But it can also involves (some) risks.

But just follow your intuition , and I am sure , that you will find the answer.


Eric