Elena ,

Please explain , what you mean , with he has disappeared.
Do you mean , that his profile is deleted , on the site ??Or did he not contacted you , for some time now ??

I understand , that in either case , it will not be good , for your peace of mind.
But you should never , go or run to the man , first.The man, must show , that he is serious with you.

And so , he will do all the efforts , to meet you , to see you in real.
I understand , that it is difficult , to keep a clear head , and a strong heart , when you are torn between hope and uncertainty.

And I know , how it feels , when you are sitting , on that cloud of love.And looking at things , from another perspective.
And , yes , sometimes love , will prevail , over our senses.And let us make , different decisions and choices.

Some men have the gift, to be very persuasive.And you must be a strong woman , to withstand , all that.

I do not want to hurt your feelings , but maybe you gave in , too quickly or too soon , to him.
And , maybe , he took advantage of that.

All the same , it is a bad story , and a bad situation.

I hope that you will get over it , very soon.They say , that time heals all the wounds.

But , yet , the scar in your heart , will remain.

I wish you all the best , and good luck.

Eric