There is nothing wrong with you. It is the men that are in contact with you. They are trying to establish a simple dialog which goes with their simple minds. When they say, "Let’s talk about this when we meet."  That means they are totally avoiding the subject and hope you will forget about it. It is a simple tactic and it does work only if you decide to drop the subject. If it is important to you, don’t drop it. Even if you drop it for that day, come back the next day and discuss it. That is critical information you need to know to make an informed decision.

You need to ask the hard questions. They should be asking and answering the hard questions. The open ended questions like, "What are your thoughts about having children?" or "What are your goals if you do decide to move to my country?" “Let’s say that you moved to my country for one year, what are some things you would do or see while you are here?” Asking those types of questions helps decide if you want to spend time with this guy, even if the question is hypothetical. You are trying to figure out the things that are important to him. Hopefully, they are some of the same things that interest you as well.

I would not be surprised if you get contacted by the sex tourists. Attractive woman are very strong magnet for those type of men. This is the time to use your education to find out the men’s true intentions. The really good ones will prove their intentions are nothing but honorable. Unfortunately, there are a lot of undesirable men you will have to sift through to find that one good man.

The situation you have described is nothing new. When women search for their love online, it does not matter if they live close by or speak the same language than the women who lives overseas. They all will go through a process of finding that man that is right for them. Hopefully, their hard work will lead into having a successful relationship.