Dear Hugo! I have 5 girls that are my mates for ages got married to men from different countries, we keep in touch for the rest of our lives , I have been told by they husbands how they diealed with women begore they found the right one , how many scammers they met and how many women looking for pen pal or just for sex and you waisting your time before find out she is just someone you should keep away for such a long distance. What is why the questions made you confused are something have to be asked to find out what kind of intantion the woman has. What is just my personal opinion. Be cool! Nat.