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Helga, of course you know far more about Russia than me; however, good books never hurt anyone. Regardless of one's belief, sometimes it is a good exercise for all to step back and take an honest look at themselves.
Sometimes honesty requires I attempt to improve. Others can have a more accurate perception; because of close proximity, my vision is blurred. Requesting an honest opinion also requires me to swallow my ego and be willing to accept the answer. (That can also be good therapy.) Being open to honest criticism helps me learn more about myself. Besides, humility is not such a bad thing.
Everyone can use improvement; those who claim there is nothing wrong in their lives, while angrily shaking their fists at others, seem hypocritical. Also, at one time it was difficult for me to realize I don't always have to win; sometimes better to let others win. Sometimes I am wrong, but I recognize there is absolute truth in our world; not everything is relative.
This past week, I discovered a great Moscow Times article that explained the reasoning behind some of Russian friend's perspectives (I like The Moscow Times more than most American newspapers; they seem quite balanced). This piece resolved some confusion for me. Clearly, how people arrive at absolute truth is the result of a process. But, while differing processes may explain different conclusions; comprehending the process does not validate it. Absolute truth is still absolute. Here is the link, if you are curious:
http://www.themoscowtimes.com/opinion/article/russia-is-using-the-past-to-explain-the-present/513153.html
You would enjoy my books, Helga. Lots of pictures! 😉
Sometimes honesty requires I attempt to improve. Others can have a more accurate perception; because of close proximity, my vision is blurred. Requesting an honest opinion also requires me to swallow my ego and be willing to accept the answer. (That can also be good therapy.) Being open to honest criticism helps me learn more about myself. Besides, humility is not such a bad thing.
Everyone can use improvement; those who claim there is nothing wrong in their lives, while angrily shaking their fists at others, seem hypocritical. Also, at one time it was difficult for me to realize I don't always have to win; sometimes better to let others win. Sometimes I am wrong, but I recognize there is absolute truth in our world; not everything is relative.
This past week, I discovered a great Moscow Times article that explained the reasoning behind some of Russian friend's perspectives (I like The Moscow Times more than most American newspapers; they seem quite balanced). This piece resolved some confusion for me. Clearly, how people arrive at absolute truth is the result of a process. But, while differing processes may explain different conclusions; comprehending the process does not validate it. Absolute truth is still absolute. Here is the link, if you are curious:
http://www.themoscowtimes.com/opinion/article/russia-is-using-the-past-to-explain-the-present/513153.html
You would enjoy my books, Helga. Lots of pictures! 😉