I see your point, Olga. Apparently there are some differences between cultures I do not understand. We believe a man of good character does not respect men who mistreat their women; we see him as a coward. A man does not see himself as weak because he is kind or patient, or has a compassionate heart. There comes a time when he must say no, and he will, but there is nothing wrong with trying to please his wife. He can be tough when he must, but does not throw his weight around because of insecurity. He sees the world clearly, but is not controlled by it.

Boys ask questions; men give answers! Boys play house, men build strong homes! Boys make babies; men raise children! A boy neglects his own children; a man will raise his own and someone else's child!

Boys invent excuses for failures; men create strategies for success! Boys look for somebody to take care of them; men look for someone to take care of! Men demand respect and know how give it!!! Boys quit and walk away when life becomes difficult. A man promises to love you through good times and bad...and he keeps his promise. This is why we feel a real man does not desert his woman. I’m surprised some find this concept of loving and cherishing your partner odd.

I understand some women see this type of man as weak. Really!? That is sad. These are just my thoughts...maybe this also answers the question, what does a man do when his partner suffers a stroke or becomes ill.