Mila, men search here exactly because they are looking for a different mentality. After a few months of being here, easy to see American women cannot compare to Slavic girls (with the exception of my mother). Much higher believability level and sincerity. Of course there are superficial people everywhere, but if you have never visited the US, you have no idea of the differences. Also, you must consider men can be jerks anywhere (I hope jerk translates well), including from islands in Italy!

No one expects you girls to “fall in love with ANY image; love is not a crap shoot (gambling game). Fall in love with the person and only if he is worthy. Hold yourself to a standard and do not lower your requirements just because he wears pants and comes from a country with a McDonalds’s on every corner! Do not fall in love with love; there is great danger for a young woman to be misled and misused. Demand respect and insist he treat you like the princess you girls are.

Always let the buyer beware. As old as I am, from experience I can say, many things are far worse than not being married, and one of those is being married to the wrong one. If you find it difficult to be patient to wait for the right man, I will repost this video of what could you end up with if you don't!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YvxNgdFeWqM