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Helga, I agree. When I came home to the US after two years in Germany, my heart stopped. I boarded a train in New York City from Kennedy Airport; as I watched the scenes through the window, I became very sad. To be honest, I had tears; we call this reverse culture shock. So many harsh and ungrateful people enjoying so much and yet complaining. This must seem extremely ugly to those who have never been here. Ignorance and pride is ugly anywhere.
Your perspective is sadly truthful and we must look very silly and awkward to you; but not all of us are this way. I am conscientiously grateful for what I have and blessings received. Regardless of what I have, I do not waste because I am aware what I enjoy are gifts for which to be thankful. I admire the sensibility of those in other lands who have not become spoiled as we. I appreciate simplicity, humility and respect for others. Of course, I know people are very similar all over the world, but they are not yet ruined by “entitlement”. 😉
America may have seen it’s better days; what we see happening here has happened to many cultures, yet few here seem alarmed. Many Americans are not aware how ignorant, pompous and foolish they appear. Sometimes, when they talk about my friends here on this site and foolishly babble “Those girls just want to come to America” I respond, “No, not always. Many of these girls will insist you come to their country.” I many ways, you have a better life. In Europe, I have always felt comfortable and happy with the people. I view my own people in similar fashion as you; however, I am not amused. I am saddened.
Your perspective is sadly truthful and we must look very silly and awkward to you; but not all of us are this way. I am conscientiously grateful for what I have and blessings received. Regardless of what I have, I do not waste because I am aware what I enjoy are gifts for which to be thankful. I admire the sensibility of those in other lands who have not become spoiled as we. I appreciate simplicity, humility and respect for others. Of course, I know people are very similar all over the world, but they are not yet ruined by “entitlement”. 😉
America may have seen it’s better days; what we see happening here has happened to many cultures, yet few here seem alarmed. Many Americans are not aware how ignorant, pompous and foolish they appear. Sometimes, when they talk about my friends here on this site and foolishly babble “Those girls just want to come to America” I respond, “No, not always. Many of these girls will insist you come to their country.” I many ways, you have a better life. In Europe, I have always felt comfortable and happy with the people. I view my own people in similar fashion as you; however, I am not amused. I am saddened.