I have observed this conversation long enough. "All men have mistresses." "All men are unfaithful." Seems that most of you accept this as fact. Some of you accept betrayal as an unavoidable consequence of being married. I've met many of these "mistresses" right here on this site and am aware of their loneliness; the difficulty they have trying to raise their children by married men, alone; the children who have no fathers; the cruelty of the fathers of these children; the girl's financial difficulties and extreme sadness. I am surprised this behavior by the men is accepted as normal. I hope the ladies are more faithful than these men seem to be. I don't know of any women here in the US that would tolerate routine betrayal. I feel badly for you all.