Men who threaten or harass women are weak, selfish and insecure. Since I arrived here, I am surprised by the stories of men who simply take advantage of loving, caring women. In my profile I hoped to find a woman who was not afraid of anyone or anything; including me. Where is the glory or benefit in hurting or controlling someone who is weaker. Men and women were always intended to help each other, to lift each other; sometimes carry each other. The Bible says, "Two are better than one." There is an incredible, unexplainable power and depth to her love when she gives to you out of the depths of her heart, from her wish to please you and share herself with you. A man should be a blessing to his wife. Cruelty is from the depths of hell.