Happens to many of us, Steve. You went a long way to be dissapointed; but I see you are back looking in the same place you first looked. Thanks for your help; I think I understand a little better now. Discovering one’s soul mate is not an exacting science. I watched a TV special on Russian dating (back when I watched TV) and was a little put off. One overweight "gentleman" in a business suit, entered a room full of lovely Russian women and began running around the room like this was his one final chance. Believing everyone was there for him, he scurried from table to table, taking names and writing notes. Seemed a bit rude and presumptuous to me. The bewildered looks on the ladies faces made me pray they thought this guy was from France and not the U.S. The young man who had arrived with him, rolled his eyes and left the room! He then discovered his future wife in the hallway! )))