Many men in US have experienced unimaginable tragedy in relationships with women they have loved or maybe still love. Many of you ladies have also experienced deep disappointment; I can sense this by reading between the words you write. Were I to share my stories, you would not even believe me. They are so sad, I cried myself! ))) But I’m still here enjoying the party and testing the ice. ))) Perhaps we’ll find someone with whom to skate again.

Inside, most men wish to share the affection and passion of a loving, caring woman; even if she can't cook. )) But, sometimes the emotional damage has been far too great and their scars leave them with protected hearts. That does not mean they don't come to this safe place and wish they could be different and love again. Some are just unable to heal. Some may talk and give every excuse why they don’t progress past a certain point in a relationship, but the problem is usually not you.