The money is irrelevant. Years ago, early days of the Internet, I was aware that writing a young woman in some places became a financial burden for her. Even the stamps, sometimes. Sad that many men did not realize this or care. I imagined many young girls, willing to take the risks, simply seeking someone to love and share, but straining with the cost and receiving little for their sincerity. I am appalled by some things I see, but that is assuaged when I see all the men in the feedback section posting: I found my girl, and the faces of their happy young wives. Felt very badly about the heartbreaking news from Kris. I wrote her a quick note to try and encourage her and hope others did as well. She is a very beautiful person and could be my daughter. I was shocked at his cruelty; I can only imagine how it affected her. Better she is not with someone so heartless and to find out now. Were she my daughter, one would not find me so diplomatic with the boy. NO one deserves that.Someday he will loathe the day he let her get away. I hope she finds a blessing in someone.