Hi Helga, I find myself repeating this message, so please take no offense 😉 I am 38, my current girlfriend is 32, the woman I spoke of with my friend Sumner was 31, he was 37. You seem reasonable enough...would you expect a future date to tell you if they had a serious, and I do mean VERY serious illness that could affect you before you invested....no, not money, but love and tears, and hopes of a child to another child with hopes. That is the part of this that stinks......people were hurt, but children began a trust too, and it was stripped away over a serious, chilling lie. about HEPC of all things. I wish you luck, but I do not seek young ones, only close to my age, mothers with pretty smiles and real goals for a life in love. Yours, Andy