In fact things are not so simple , and sex can not solve all the problems that may arise in the communication between a man and a woman. Sex only pleasant application if there is a mutual attraction, relationship-building . It's a hard way , and you need to choose carefully, but without meeting in real life, it's impossible to understand the truth about man. And of course there may be errors , but that does not mean that you can find a replacement immediately , if something did not work the first time. I do not consider myself a frivolous person. And I'm not ready to go to the extreme measure of desperation . I will accept defeat, but do not dwell on it. I consider myself to be a self-sufficient woman. No illusions just a sober outlook on life. But the feelings of my life playing a major role. If I do not feel sexual attraction to a man I will never continue to communicate with him. To me it is important that the man with whom I will build a relationship had sexual attractiveness to me.