Tom, I had in mind when she wrote about social behavior and to other people that man and woman must come to an agreement among themselves and be able to do it. Must be able to talk to each other about everything. If you do not like someone, but for your man this person is important, then you need to be nice to him. It's obvious. I believe that a man will go well with those who are important to you. It is necessary to discuss in advance all aspects of meetings with other people. That's it. Simple!