Raisa, the translation function of the site is not perfect and I'm not sure I fully understand your question, but I will do my best to give you an honest answer.
After 25 years of marriage I now lived alone for about six months. I been here, and on a swedish dating site, a month now. Loneliness is not a funny thing but I really did not expect to find the true love of the rest of my life that fast!
I'm a man and I'm not ashamed enjoying pictures of beautiful women, but internet is full of more suitable sites for that. I just don't wanna rush things and before I let myself fall in love with a foreign woman I wanna be sure that she will love me back the same way. If she is gonna move to my country I want to be sure that I am the reason, and if she is gonna leave her home (family-friends-work) for me I wanna be sure that I can give her the life she is expecting.
I also wanna be absolutely sure that this time is for the rest of my life.