That isn't even the issue. Sorry to say but you yourself keep bringing up the SAME OLD STORIES.
Speaking only for myself, I want to come here and interact with people. I want to see what's going on in the forum, read some crazy stuff (nutgang, carribean villa, and certain individuals who make insane comments). Then I can have some light entertainment by thinking of some kind of silly remark, a provocative response or - if I have a particularly great day - write something wise.
Useful posts discuss IDEAS and NOT people.
I for my part find it embarrassing to read in every minute detail about someone else's personal life circumstances.
If you spread out every bit of information about your family, friends, hobbies, people whom you've met, girls whom you dated plus a whole narrative of how the date went and especially what went wrong, I find it deterring and out of order.
It is your choice how you handle information, situations and how you text.
Others make their choices based on precisely that.
Time to reflect, Dave.