A Western man whose brain is intact wants a responsible and reasonable spouse without any 'traditional' (antiquated stone age) views that try to enforce 'social' roles and behaviour. If this kind of responsibility and sharing tasks (yes, also financial matters!) is too much and too demanding, then steer clear of the modern, progressive world and stick to the outdated, chauvinist swamp, some people call "traditional and moral society". You get plenty of machos there who gladly control their women, also and especially financially.
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