Who talks about "refusing"?
"Greed"??
It would be good and wise to be less judgemental and more considerate.
What I'm totally and strictly against is this pseudo feminist view "a man must pay. Always. Because he is a man."
That is obnoxious, demanding, devoid of ANY logic and therefore simply silly. I know plenty of MODERN WESTERN men who would easily feel offended of such outright insolence.
As if 'male' or 'female' had anything to do with duties or responsibilities.
If making arrangements and sharing responsibilities exceeds the capabilities, I suggest a process of modernisation (reading helps 😉 )