As I said: "suit yourself." If you are happy to write and receive such messages, do so.

Interesting mix of communication you have there: "all men are arrogant and think they are kings", but at the same time you come up with the stereotypical cliché of men having to be more "creative". 

So, as a woman you may delete "such a primitive message", but as a man you may not, because "it is not polite"? That is what I call post-apocalypse.

What I'm saying is that it's a bad way to start communication. Yes, a simple "hi" can change your life, but so can a simple "bye" for that matter.