Olga, who said anything about "years"?? Firstly, it's an English saying, hence the quotation marks. Secondly, the one thing that any reasonable man loathes is "speed up with process. I want to get married YESTERDAY!" Building a relationship requires trust, and trust takes TIME to grow. There's nothing worse in a man's world than than a woman who panics about her "expiry date" (in German there even is a special phrase for it: "Torschlusspanik" - the moment the gates to the shopping close).
Speed-crashing into dates and pressure forcing meetings are total turn offs. Still, good luck to you!