Dear Paul,
I think, it is a time to write a full list our your requirements and do's with don't's to your future candidate in one post😊
Why do you spread it over so many pages, it is not very efficient.
So, the most suitable woman can read it and go straight ahead to tje point😊 (if she still want after all😊 )
I honestly wish you more patience, empathy and Frohe Weihnachten!