Attitude is the first thing that is important to me. I have been in many relationships where the sex was great but their attitudes were lacking and I was no longer pleased in the relationship. Sex is a close second and also very important but without a good positive attitude, sex cannot be fully appreciated and enjoyed. When I was younger, I may have chosen differently but now that I have more maturity and experience I will always choose a good attitude above all. Finances can be figured out, this is least important to me.