I would also like to add that having a set of "options" not only at the beginnig, but throughout communication may prevent from studying a certain person thoroughly. And often with intuition women sense that there is someone else.. This does not contribute to trust and devotion.

By the way, Tim, since you offered that model... Imagine, that Option A has failed and you are meeting your backup lady. How are you going to explain to her that you are suddenly here, in her country? In case of your continent it will be difficult to pretend that you were just passing by.