Cada situación es diferente. Es una sintonía de las parejas y lo que buscan en sus vidas.

En México, se suele apoyar a los hijos con ayuda de una o las dos familias.

hay muchos matices y maneras de pensar de las parejas.

Lo que si puedo afirmar, es que en México estamos en una ola de violencia contra las mujeres, por hombres machistas. Si esto sucedía en los 60', 70's, y décadas posteriores, se ocultaban.

Ahora tomamos muy en serio estos temas y protestamos por los derechos de las mujeres.

Yo también tengo a una hija, que procuro y cuido.
ellas protestan y se hacen escuchar.

se necesita hacer un estudio detallado de los conceptos que explayaré aquí:

Hace unos diez años, las mujeres en la organización Metro ya estaban laborando en puestos gerenciales, administrativos, secretarias, conductoras de trenes, jefas de estación. Incluso mujeres ingenieras que laboran como supervisoras de vías de trenes.

antes de dejar de laborar en metro, eramos alrededor de 650 trabajadores para 3 líneas de metro, no sé los números exactos a detalle, pero vi alrededor de 1/3 de los puestos ocupados por mujeres en muchas especialidades.

El gobierno estatal, desde hace 20 años, ha estado abriendo espacio para las mujeres tanto en los poderes legislativos, judicial y de gobierno ejecutivo.

En el caso metro, cuando una trabajadora o usuaria pasajero se llega a enfrentar con acoso de tipo sexual o de "bulling", el ofensor es despedido sin compensación económica y posible demanda penal, o si es un usuario, es detenido por la policía y remitido para enfrentar una demanda penal por el delito de acoso.

It's 06:51, still in bed ( in the past, I wake up at 05:00 to start my day, I was very active and enjoyed driving in the highway, great music in the car and witnesses the sun rising up in the sky, a lot of great mountains on the journey...I really enjoyed the trips).
Will develop what I will describe at my last job, in detail.

Active government with women emancipation.

И в грубой форме,ужас. Леся,молодчина,даже бровью не ведет. Один раз объяснила и точка . Обожаю,как она пишет ,излагает свои мысли,ситуацию. Прямо настроение меняет.

Одну Лесю нашу миллион раз.. и в хвост и в гриву

Здесь огромное количество раз цеплялись к орфографии, и фотографии, во всяком случае , к её отсутствию точно.

I'll add more.

Also, here under your post there was a comment that it is much easier for a woman in her 20s to raise children than a woman in her 40s. Strength and health are not the same as in 20 years. And again, here under your post there was another comment about a woman who grew up in a career, gave birth to a child at a late age, but could not combine her career and raising a child, she left her career and devoted herself only to a child. And this also speaks of difficulties, loss of strength, health during the period of building a career, the rest of the strength and health to combine a career and raising children after 40 years may not be enough.

Thank you for your story Salvador. If possible, can you remember offhand how many men are in leadership positions in your organization, and how many women? And one more question. Did your colleague, who reached the position of manager and high income, have children before, during her studies and career path, or after she has already achieved all this?

I ask you about the time of the birth of your colleague's children to clarify whether it is easy to study, work, and achieve career heights with small children in your arms. Or, if your colleague gave birth to children after career achievements, and this, I think, happens by the age of 40, maybe by the age of 30, this is individual. so, even, here, under your post, there was a comment that by the age of 40 and later than 40 there is a risk of either not having children at all, or having children with pathology. That is, a woman can have a counter in her head, and she constantly thinks about how to do have time to do everything, and a career, and give birth and raise children. And when a person has constant anxiety in his head, then his health does not move for the better. This is one option. And the other, if a woman with two small children studied, worked and went to career heights, can you understand that in this situation it is a hundred times more difficult to do this than when a man, having a reliable rear in the form of a family and wife, does the same thing, but at the same time the man is not distracted by routine household chores?

Лара, в защиту Людмилы выскажусь, что можно было и не акцентировать внимания на чужой ошибке в написании слова. А то получается, как в известной фразе(мат опускаю): " Не можешь докопаться до человека- докопайся до орфографии, не можешь докопаться до орфографии-докопайся до фотографии!" Иногда проще пройти мимо чужих опечаток, но сохранить атмосферу добра и уважения!

В вашей фразе "реально подкол" намного больше уверенности, а я руководствуюсь обычной логикой.

Mientras hacía las compras para preparar un delicioso platillo mexicano, recordé a una colega de mi último trabajo en el sistema metro de mi ciudad.

Ella se llama Claudia Judith R (omito nombres completos, por privacidad).

Ella ingresó a trabajar como capturista de ordenes de trabajo de los mantenimientos a los sistemas del metro.

Siguió estudiando en las noches y laborando en las horas regulares de trabajo, ella ganaba un sueldo ajustado a su edad y tipo de trabajo, digamos 10K.

Posteriormente laboró como secretaria, luego como compradora y antes de que yo me retirara de la empresa, ella estaba sentada a la mesa de juntas presidiendo procesos de compras en licitaciones públicas, ella ya está casada, con dos hijos pequeños y llegó a ganar el doble de mi sueldo, en el puesto de gerencia de compras.

Mi último sueldo era de 50K, el de ella alrededor de los 75K, con más prestaciones como bonos, gasolina, compensaciones económicas, lo propio en puestos directivos.

А сколько раз надо "признавать оплошность"? Я честно написала, что искренне полагала, что слово пишется именно так, как я его написала. Еще и "припозорила" себя выражением "Ганьба мені". И заметьте не восприняла реплику Лары как "реальный подкол". Этого недостаточно? Если кому-то станет легче, то можете считать меня малограмотной или безграмотной (как кому больше нравится), я абсолютно не против, в моей жизни от этого ничегошеньки не изменится.
А если кому-то мерещятся "подколы", то в который раз напоминаю, что не несу отвественности за восприятие изложенного другими людьми.
Вот Вы, Светлана, могли бы ответить откуда люди черпают познания в той или иной сфере, если они (познания) не являются общимиобразовательными/загальновживаними/allgemeine?

A lot of to investigate.

I'll do my homework.

Вы меня словили на слове "наверняка" . Я могу признать и допустить оплошность,а вы?

Наверняка Вы "мозг Людмилы", раз так уверены, был ли мой ответ "реально подколом" .

А вы мозг Людмилы,что так уверенно отвечаете?

Лара я так поняла, Людмила указала не на саму услугу, а на написание слова. Что она не знает, как оно правильно пишется.

Действительно безобразие  Людмила не дала Ларе в полной мере насладиться чувством собственного превосходства. Указала на ошибку и аж три ржущих смайлика поставила. Такая смешная ошибка, невозможно промолчать.
Кстати, Людмила реально не подкалывала никого.

Реально подкол! Людмила иначе не умеет. Вы указали на ошибку,она тут же дала ответку. Зачем трогали))))) кстати за сленг и мне может прилететь!😆

//Increasingly, there are cases where Mexican women are able to take on better-paid leadership positions. Even a job that was exclusively for men, across the board. There have been cases of divorces when a woman demanded a pension from a man, but in these cases we consider them here as insensitive, lazy and cruel people who want to take advantage of the laws. //

Can you tell by percentage how many Mexican women are in high positions, earning more than men? And in cases where a woman demands a pension from a man during a divorce, how many years have they lived together, are there any children, one or more? In Russia, ex-husbands do not pay pensions to ex-wives. Moreover, from the woman with whom he lived for many years, who was his support at home, ran the household, raised joint children, created a favorable family climate, men can, with the help of lawyers, take away everything that he acquired in marriage with her. But without her help, he would not have been able to achieve material and career heights. Without her help, he had to wash floors, wash clothes, cook food, raise and educate children. Distracted by family affairs, could he become what he became, completely without thinking about household chores? In my opinion, men can be many times more insensitive and cruel. There is a saying: "If you want to know a person, give him power and money." This also applies to the level of ordinary family relationships. I like that in Mexico the law protects women, and I would really like to see the same laws in Russia.

Muchas Gracias Ekaterina, tus palabras son música en mis oídos, se aprecia el calor humano de ustedes.

Buena suerte, por lo pronto yo sigo con mis objetivos de vida en mi tercer etapa - lo había soñado desde el jardín de niños   -

Si dios me tiene reservada una mujer a mi lado, bienvenida....

Mientras, recorreré el mundo y atestiguaré todo lo bello que hay en el.

Un saludo cordial a todos en el Foro.  

Раз Вы не только грамотная, а еще и такая проницательная, могли бы и не переспрашивать.
Подумали бы прежде Вы - уже тоже достаточно взрослая женщина, чем писать самое первое сообщение мне. Сожалею, что Вам недостаточно того, что я "посыпала голову пеплом"  .

Эскорт (фр. escorte, от итал. scorta) — сопровождение любого вида.

Переспросила, чтобы прояснить ситуацию и не ошиблась: cледуя Вашей логике, те, кто пишет грамотно, специалисты в эскорт-услугах? Подумали бы прежде, чем писать такое равно самое первое сообщение мне, а еще взрослая женщина.

I understand you perfectly, and I sympathize. It's nice to hear that you fell in love with Russia, Russian cities and people. I hope that the situation in the world will change for the better for ordinary people, and you will be able to fulfill your plans and dreams.

If your desire to meet a woman from the countries of the post-Soviet space is just as persistent, then I can suggest that you look not only in the territory of the former USSR. I know that many of our women once went to warm countries such as Thailand, Bali and others. They live and work there with the help of the Internet. That is, they have already adapted to long distances, used to being far from home and relatives. I think it will be much easier for them psychologically, physically and financially to change one warm country for another. And it is easier to meet them, because they are not in Russia. Although there are women in Russia who earn money using the Internet, many have left for Georgia, Armenia. For freelancers, the main thing is to have the Internet, and they choose a place of residence that is warmer, and often near the sea or the ocean.

Hola Ekaterina.

Es muy informativo conocer cómo son las costumbres en temas de contratos y divorcios en los países.

aquí en México viví las costumbres de los años 60's, había civismo y respeto en las personas, pero el machismo prevalecía mucho.

Poco a poco, los derechos civiles fueron ganando terreno.

Así mismo, México se adhirió a tratados internacionales en donde se dan preferencia a los derechos humanos.

México aún padece del machismo, violencia de género extrema. Ese es un tema del cual abrí un hilo en este foro.

Hay casos cada vez más frecuentes, en que las mujeres mexicanas pueden tener puestos directivos, mejor pagados. Incluso trabajos que eran exclusivos de los hombres, en todos los ámbitos.

Han habido casos de divorcios en que se le reclama a la mujer una pensión para los hombres, pero esos casos los tratamos aquí como de hombres insensibles, flojos y abusadores que se quieren aprovechar de las leyes.

I don't know what position your friend - women held in Russia, whether she had a high-quality job, or a business, or a job in a public organization. She lowered her social status or raised it after marriage. All situations must be considered separately. Italy is more or less close to the countries of the former USSR, and this also matters. After all, a woman can have parents, children, grandchildren, relatives, friends, with whom many women are not ready to part for very long periods. And by the way, I also married an Italian.

In Russia, marriage contracts are not yet widespread. In Russia, spouses still use the family code. The Russian Family Code states that all property acquired before marriage is the property of each spouse, property acquired during marriage is joint property. Joint income is also considered income from assets acquired before marriage (income from residential or commercial real estate, income from business or other intellectual property, and so on). In a divorce, the joint property is divided in half. After the death of one of the spouses, his share of 50% is divided between the surviving spouse and, if any, disabled relatives: parents, children. There are also wills, marriage contracts, which can slightly change the inheritance algorithm.
I'm not a lawyer, maybe lawyers can tell more precisely.

I did not know that in Mexico they punish non-payers so severely. I like that in Mexico the law is to protect women. I don't know what the situation is in Mexico in terms of inequality between men's and women's incomes. Are there frequent cases when a woman earns more than a man? Are there frequent cases when a woman pays alimony to a man? In Russia, there is no law regulating alimony not for children, but for spouses. In Russia, there is a law on the payment of alimony only to minor children.

Escribí un tema de la violencia de género. Aquí en México no estamos exentos de eso...veo un tabú ahí....nadie habla al respecto.

Saludos mi estimado y hay que ver y sentir lo que se dice entre líneas. Veo la esencia en sus proyecciones

Касалетка-это та бадья из фольги, в которой еду в самолете раздают. А почему она святая? Да фиг его знает, с ирининой кашей только такая эмоция)