ID OEY-729
军, 59 y.o.
Main info
- First name:
- 军
- Age:
- 59
- Location:
- China, Dalian
- Zodiac Sign:
- Aries
- Weight:
- 79kg
- Height:
- 175cm
- Eye colour:
- Black
- Hair colour:
- Black
- Body type:
- Athletic
- Smoking Frequency:
- Never
- Drinking Frequency:
- Occasionally(Socially)
- Sleeping habits:
- Does not matter
- With information:
- Do you have children?:
- 1 child
- 30 y.o. boy, not living at home
- Language:
- Chinese 5 (Fluent)
- Marital status:
- Divorced
- Want children:
- No
- Do you agree to move ?:
- I agree to stay in my city
I agree to move inside my country
I agree to move to another country - Your priorities in life:
- Family, long-term relationship
Balance of mind
Health
Communication - In my property:
- A house/ a cottage, A car
- Where do you live?:
- Separate house/ cottage
- What do you think about travelling and meeting expenses:
- I agree to pay
- Education:
- Bachelor's degree
- Job title:
- Tradesman
Lifestyle
- Do I enjoy gardening?:
- Don't mind helping
- Do I enjoy grocery shopping?:
- I love it
- Do I enjoy other types of Shopping?:
- I love it
- Do I enjoy cooking?:
- I like cooking
- How often do I like to go out?:
- Twice a week
- Do I enjoy dining out?:
- I love it
- When it comes to TV:
- Prefer the news
- When it comes to money:
- I spend some and I save some
- Describe myself at a party as a:
- Impartial observer
- Keep my space:
- Always clean for company
- Ideally I would like to live in a:
- beach house
- Preference for pets:
- Don't have but like Dogs
Preferences
- Age:
- 40 - 56
- Country:
- Western Europe, Eastern Europe, Former CIS, Asia
- Weight:
- 49.94 - 70.37 kg
- Height:
- 165 - 175 cm
- Eye colour:
- Any
- Hair colour:
- Any
- Is it okay if they have children?:
- Yes but living separately
- Body type:
- Slender, Average, A few extra pounds
- Smokes:
- Never
- Drinks:
- Occasionally(Socially)
- Ethnic Preference:
- Asian, White/Caucasian
Hobbies
- What type of television programs do I enjoy watching most?:
- Sport, News, Nature/wildlife, Films, Documentary, Current Affairs/Debates, Comedy, Action/Adventure
- I enjoy spending free time:
- Doing something athletic, Curling up with a good book, Puttering in the garden, Visiting a museum or gallery, Catching up on household chores, Watching TV or a movie, Taking a walk, Among friends, In nature
- Activities that I enjoy:
- Aerobics, Boating/sailing, Camping, Fishing, Hiking, Hunting, Mountain climbing, Skiing/snowboarding, Swimming, Walking, Horse riding
- Sports that I enjoy watching and/or playing:
- Bowling, Diving, Extreme sports, Figure skating, Football, Olympic sports, Soccer
- Forms of entertainment that I enjoy:
- Concerts, Dinner parties, Fashion events, Fine dining, Movies, Museum/arts, Classical music, Country music, Jazz music, Pop music, Rock music, TV Educational/news
- Other hobbies or interests:
- Cars, crafts, dogs, family/kids, gardening, gourmet cooking, news/politics/events, philosophy/spiritual, photography, travelling
Awards
Responses to some questions
- How would you describe yourself?
- 我是一个内心善良的人，待人真诚坦荡。遇事足够自信，不会轻易退缩，同时懂得包容与体谅。我愿意去理解别人的难处，性格沉稳有耐心。对待感情专一认真，懂得责任与珍惜，遇事懂得换位思考，心胸豁达。
- How would you describe your ideal partner?
- 我心中理想的伴侣，品性温柔善良，心胸豁达宽容。性格乐观开朗，面对生活始终保有积极心态，能够体察他人情绪、善解人意。对待感情专一忠诚，平日里细心体贴、待人温柔。遇事可以好好沟通，懂得彼此体谅，既有独立的自我，也愿意用心经营两个人的感情。
- If you knew the world was going to end in 30 days, what would you do?
- 珍惜生活中的点滴美好、不要留下遗憾、放下执着、体验生命的意义。
- If you had 10 million dollars to spare, what would you do with it?
- 已经有了，还是正常的生活……
- How often, and from whom do you ask advice?
- 遇到不同的问题，请教不同的人
- What quality do you value most in the people of your gender?
- 对于同性别的朋友，我最看重这几点品质：
为人诚实守信，做事有担当，遇到问题不会推卸责任；心胸豁达，懂得包容差异，不会斤斤计较；待人真诚坦率，表里如一，不背后算计；有同理心，懂得尊重他人，三观正直，重情义、守底线。 - What quality do you value most in the opposite sex?
- 面对异性，我最看重这些内在品质：心地善良宽厚，懂得换位思考、善解人意；性格乐观平和，能够一起从容面对生活里的难题；对待感情专一忠诚，有责任心；待人温柔体贴，做事真诚坦率，不虚伪做作。同时拥有独立的思想，懂得彼此尊重，愿意互相包容、好好沟通。
- What is a recent prominent event in your life, and how has it affected you?
- 我人生中最近最重要的一件事，选择创业、自己打拼做事业。
完成人生的成长和蜕变。我学会了独立担当、遇事沉稳果断，心态变得更加成熟、稳重、自律。
我明白了责任的意义，也磨炼了我的耐心、包容和抗压能力。不再浮躁、更加踏实，懂得脚踏实地做事、真诚待人。
这件事彻底改变了我的生活状态和人生格局，让我更加独立、自信、有担当，也更加珍惜未来的生活和值得相守的人。 - What are your goals now?
- 踏实过好每一天。
- Do you have a lot of friends?
- 我的朋友不多，但真诚、靠谱、值得深交。
我从不喜欢所谓只适合吃喝玩乐、遇事就躲开的人，从来不算真正的朋友。无效的社交、表面的热闹，只会消耗我的时间和情绪，没有任何价值，我也从来不去迎合。
我始终相信，朋友贵在精，不在多。真正的关系，不需要天天闲聊客套，也不需要刻意维系。相处时轻松自在，说话可以坦诚直率，不用伪装、不用防备。三观相合、懂得体谅、有分寸、知底线，才是长久相处的根本。
人的精力和真心都是有限的。我不想把时间浪费在泛泛之交上，更愿意把真诚和温柔留给少数真正懂我、珍惜我的人。
最好的友谊，是彼此尊重、互相包容、各自努力、一起成长。平淡长久，踏实安稳，这就是我想要的人际关系。 - What qualities do you dislike most in those of your gender?
- 虚伪两面派，当面交好背后算计。
心胸狭隘，见不得别人变好。
言而无信，遇事只会推卸责任。
搬弄是非，喜欢挑拨离间。 - What qualities do you dislike most in the people of the opposite sex?
- 对异性，我没有发言权
自重就好 - What would you like to change in yourself?
- 只要我发现自己有缺点，或是做事做错了，我都会坦然做出改变。我不会固执地掩饰自己的毛病，也不会碍于面子回避问题。人就是不断改掉缺点，才会慢慢变得成熟。敢于直面自己的不足，并不是软弱，反而说明内心很强大。接受自己并不完美，主动改正错误，才能让自己更稳重靠谱。不管是平常生活，还是感情当中，我都会及时调整自己。
改变自己才能豁然开朗。 - How do friends view you?
- 走自己的路，让别人说去吧。
坚持自己选择的道路，不必在意旁人闲言碎语。人生的选择权，自始至终都只握在自己手中。
每个人的境遇、阅历与内心向往都是独一无二的，旁人只会站在自身角度随意评判，他们不会替你承受抉择带来辛苦与煎熬，更无法真切体会你内心真正想要的生活。不管是感情、事业还是人生方向，适合别人的路途，未必就适合你。千万不要因为世俗的眼光、旁人的质疑，就轻易动摇自己的初心。
漫漫岁月走到最后，日子终究是自己在过。欢喜也好，遗憾也罢，所有结果都需要独自承担。倘若一直活在别人的评价之中，内心只会疲惫不堪。遵从本心，从容稳步向前，才是对自己人生最负责任的态度。 - What kinds of music do you like?
- 我喜爱的音乐种类十分广泛，不会局限于单一风格，毕竟音乐本就没有国界。流行、爵士、乡村、摇滚、古典、布鲁斯、电子乐、拉丁乐曲以及纯轻音乐，我都愿意静下心来欣赏。不同曲风拥有各自独特的魅力，每一段旋律，都会带给我截然不同的心境。
- What is your favourite food?
- 大自然给的食物都喜欢吃
- What are your favourite films?
- 中国电视剧《悬崖》
- What is your favourite fairy-tale?
- 安徒生童话：《皇帝的新装》
- What is your favourite activity or hobby?
- 保龄球、滑冰、排球，乒乓球……
- Tell us about your dream partner.
- 待人真诚坦荡，不会刻意欺骗。
性格温柔包容，遇事愿意一起沟通解决，不冷战逃避。
内心独立有分寸，懂得尊重彼此的空间。
对待感情专一用心，愿意双向付出，而不是一味索取。
三观契合，善良有底线，可以互相陪伴、共同成长。 - Where do you want to live?
- 海岸线上的爱情小屋
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